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The goal is not to live a life that's free of pain. The goal is to be able to allow the rejection, abandonment, childhood trauma, heartbreak, insecurities, and fears that we all have, not to permeate to the point of people-pleasing paralysis.

You CAN experience the joy of being. Life is meant to be lived, not tolerated.

You CAN become attracted to what's good for you -  instead of what triggers you into trying to be "good enough."

You CAN be your own relational shot-caller.

You CAN stop caring about what others think of you.

You CAN have unconditional confidence and self-love.

You CAN'T control what other people say and do to you. But you CAN control how comfortable they feel saying and doing what they do to you. 

Welcome to the Emotional Mastery Membership. This is a collection of everything I wish I would have had when I was going through a painful breakup with a toxic ex, dealing with a fake friend, at odds with myself, struggling with my own issues, and in desperate need of boundaries and self-esteem.

The time is now. Join this community of over four thousand members who have learned to Give Their Pain A Purpose.

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What You Get With the Emotional Mastery Membership

Four In-Depth Courses

Over six hours of audio/visual material where you'll learn...

  • How to get over a toxic ex (or ANY toxic person in your life) with your dignity intact.
  • How to stop being used, abused, and disrespected. The doormat era of your life ends now.
  • How to attract (and be attracted to) healthy relationships.
  • How to break free from caring about the opinions of others.
  • How to self-validate, instead of being dependent on outside validation.

Two Group Coaching Sessions per Month

Every month, I do two live group coaching sessions with members of this community (sessions are one hour in length). I do a Q&A, focus on breaking free from bullsh*t, loving yourself unconditionally, and how to become unf*ckwithable. I'll discuss whatever topics that naturally get brought up. Some sessions are heavier and others are lighter in subject matter and depth. But every session is different and provides value.

Bonus Content

You’ll get the audio version of my book, Win Your Breakup, along with my Self-Validation Workbook to heal your self-esteem and get your power back NOW. You'll also be the first to know about content updates and upcoming in-person events.
 

And as more course material is added, you will have full access to it.

This Membership Is for You If...

  • You want to live life unapologetically.
  • You always feel like you're either too much or not enough.
  • You keep finding yourself in relationships with people who aren’t good for you.
  • You're always the one making an effort.
  • You feel like you need help and advice when it comes to dating and relationships.
  • You're sick of being a victim but also tired of being a survivor, if that makes sense. You're ready to let your survivorship light the way but don't know where to start.
  • You need to learn how to implement boundaries without guilt.
  • You've struggled with people-pleasing.
  • You're going through a painful breakup.
  • You're ready to heal the trauma from your past.
  • You're ready to overcome shame from your past.
  • You want to forgive and accept (yourself and others) and finally move on.
  • You need help dealing with toxic friends, family, and coworkers.
  • Self-sabotage and procrastination have become a pattern.
  • You want to bounce back from and break your addiction to toxic people and relationships.
  • You don’t set the bar high enough for how others treat you.
  • You have a general sense that "something is missing" in your life.
  • You find it very uncomfortable to sit in the anxiety of the unknown.
  • You don’t understand what all this talk about "self-love" actually means in practice.
  • You feel (and maybe are told) that your expectations are “too high” and or “not realistic.”
  • You feel like your emotional needs are not being met. You also feel "needy" anytime you express them.
  • You want to connect with great people.
  • You're ready to make lasting change.
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About Natasha

I am someone who lives to give everything that she wishes she would have had. And I am doing my imperfect best; we all are.

I am still contradictory and a total hypocrite at times. I still get insecure and scared. I fail much more than I succeed. Most of the time I write or speak in my work, it's to remind myself of my own advice.

But I've found a way to let it all be a tailwind, a lesson that allows me to use my pain, past mistakes, and others' hurtful behavior as a launching pad - instead of allowing it to become the headwind of an irrefutable definition of my worth. 

You can do this too. 

I am not on any high horse here, and I never will be. We are in this together. Always.

Millions of people visit my blog every year and I currently coach clients one-on-one in over thirty countries worldwide. My education has not come from a classroom, a certification program, or a license of any kind. It has come from my own life experiences; it has come from surviving myself, other people, and relationships that left me for dead.

I have been in your shoes. I have gone through breakups that have left me suicidal and made me feel like I had no choice but to abandon my dignity, moral code, and intuition – just so I could get more time with an ex who had no problem wasting mine.

I have self-sabotaged and taken good people for granted. 

I know what it's like to feel completely defeated, emotionally knocked down, and left for dead.

I also know what it's like to finally be able to self-reflect. To employ discipline, and experience the kind of freedom and satisfaction of getting up off the ground in a way no one ever thought I could. 

Now, it's your turn.

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WHAT YOU GET

Course

The No Contact Contract

Nine-Part Audiobook

The Power Of Silence After Break Up.

If you are in any way hung up on a toxic ex, who consistently treated you poorly and thrives on ambiguity, this audio/digital course is for you.

What's on the other side:

  • Over three hours of audio/visual material in this course.
  • Freedom, closure, and power you didn't know you had.
  • Seeing your toxic ex for who they are - independent of your value.
Course

Breaking UP, Not DOWN

Twelve Videos

Navigating the Stages of a Breakup.

If you can identify the stage you're in and use that awareness to your dignified advantage, you will be able to, with confidence and indifference, break UP from what is not healthy for you - instead of breaking DOWN into the same patterns, habits, bad decisions, and relational mediocrity. The time for a better life is now. You're done with the drama.

What's on the other side:

  • Over one hour of audio/visual material in this course.
  • Understanding where you're at and why.
  • Moving on from heartbreak.
Course

Healthy Boundaries

Twelve Videos

How to Set Healthy Boundaries After Hitting Your Limit.

This course is for anyone who has hit their limit with being taken for granted, doormatted, used, and abused. Whether you've hit your limit with yourself, other people, or both, remember this:

Boundaries are nothing more than a recognition of value. Standards are the criteria that need to be met in order for that value to be accessed.

This course will teach you how to set healthy boundaries that 
protect your value, instead of continually making you doubt and question it.

What's on the other side:

  • Over eighty minutes of audio/visual material in this course.
  • No more being taken for granted, abused, and disrespected.
  • No more guilt for prioritizing your peace and mental health.
Course

Stop Obsessing Start Living

Eight Videos

How To No Longer Care What Other People Think.

The obsession with what others thought of me, my life, and my decisions nearly killed me (emotionally and physically). It left me suicidal; unable to live life on my own terms because I was never taught how to initiate the confidence required to do so. This course will resurrect your backbone, turn down the noise, and allow you to prioritize the peace that comes with becoming an emotional entrepreneur.

What's on the other side:

  • Over thirty minutes of audio/visual material in this course.
  • No more obsessing over what other people think.
  • A life dictated by YOUR intuition, not the opinions of everyone else. 
Coaching

Group Coaching

Two Group Coaching Sessions Monthly

Every month, I do two live group coaching sessions with members of this community (sessions are one hour in length). I do a Q&A, focus on breaking free from bullsh*t, loving yourself unconditionally, and how to become unf*ckwithable. I'll discuss whatever topics that naturally get brought up. Some sessions are heavier and others are lighter in subject matter and depth. But every session is different and provides value.

BONUS 1

Win Your Breakup 

The audio version of Natasha's #1 Bestselling Book.

BONUS 2

Self-Validation Workbook

Heal your self-esteem and get your power back NOW.

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Member Testimonials

“Natasha has such an insightful and wise way of relaying her advice, she really is a gifted writer. I started out reading the articles on her blog, then listened to her course "The No Contact Contract", she helped me to stay strong during a very difficult break-up. Lots of aha moments!”

— Jennifer

“Natasha has a way with words and a deep understanding of what it’s like to experience a “breakup” of any kind. For me personally, her book was a guide for how to heal from relationships with toxic family members and coworkers. Natasha’s advice is invaluable!”

— Sydney

“Natasha's POV on life, and relationships is the therapy you didn't know you needed. If you really take the time to absorb and follow what she tells you, you are on a path to self-love that you never knew could exist. She has impacted so many lives by her authenticity, wisdom and love.”

— Holly 

Membership Pricing

EMOTIONAL MASTERY MEMBERSHIP

$47/mo

WHAT'S INCLUDED:

  • Immediate access to four high-quality, in-depth courses: Over six hours of audio/visual material.

  • Two group coaching sessions per month: Every month, I do two live group coaching sessions with members of this community (sessions are one hour in length).
  • Bonus content: You’ll get the audio version of my book, Win Your Breakup, along with my Self-Validation Workbook to heal your self-esteem and get your power back NOW. You'll also be the first to receive new course material when it's released and get information on upcoming in-person events.
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